You may know, through body language, if a man is really interested in being with you or wants to get out as soon as possible; keys are easy to detect because they involve gestures, general attitudes and positions:
1-He leans slightly toward you
The simplest tip of all: if he leans towards you is because they want to reach out and close the circle. Interest Level: High.
2-He is regid:
Stand perfectly straight is not a comfortable position to say, and even if you're smiling and full attention, his attitude is just friendly. Interest Level: Low.
3-Reach out and sign with the peak of his fingers:
They can be fast or slow gestures, but in both cases he is looking closer to touch. Interest Level: High.
4-keeps your hand away, fingers pointing in another direction.
If his hand is not moving towards your own is because he does not feel real interest in you, as if your fingers are kept closed or pointing to himself. Interest Level: Low.
5-Forward one foot towards you
Bring one foot to yours (even invading the space between them) is ora "trap" that makes to decrease the space between the two when you can not make it as obvious.
Such movements are not generally aware (because as Joe Navarro says, we rarely care about controlling what our feet). Interest Level: High.
6-He does not smile anymore and his eyes look lost:
Perhaps his mind is far away wondering if there will be an app for keeping statistics of cockfighting, or watching the siphon calculating how many milliliters of beer flowing every second; in the worst case, you can be "checking" the back of your competition. Level of interest: none.
7-One of his feet almost want to walk out
If one of your feet (especially the left, controlled by the right hemisphere brutally honest) seem to come to life and spreads sideways by lifting the tip, is the strongest signal that he wants to go there. Interest Level: less than zero.
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